One of the things that makes me happy is simply being around fun and interesting people. We obviously all have a different definition of what a fun and interesting person is. For instance, some people might be attracted to the highly intellectual or adventurous types, while others might prefer the enthusiastic or spiritual types.
I have had to sit through meals with people I simply did not connect with. It’s painful. Most probably, those people find me boring to. I can tell that I’m boring someone when I talk and all they do is nod and say «oh, really ». Funny enough, in these contexts, I also find myself pretty boring. I often comment on it to myself as I’m talking. I become witness to my conversation, having an out of body experience.
I’ve been blessed with a very fun family. For my parents 50th wedding anniversary, my brothers and I, along with our respective spouses, my 28 year-old niece and of course, my parents, all went out for dinner at a fancy restaurant in Montreal. We laughed so much, when I got back home; I realized my stomach muscles were sore. Family obligations are part of life, so I’m lucky I can actually truly enjoy these gatherings.
I have also learned how important it is for me to pick and choose my friends. I know that in general, people I find uninteresting, are very self-involved, or don’t seem genuinely interested and sensitive to other people’s responses when engaged in a discussion.
Surrounding myself with fun and interesting people really makes a difference in my happiness level. With my busy life, I feel like I need to fully take advantage of every moment I have. What do you think makes a person fun and interesting?
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